If you’re like us, the last thing you want to do is run out of things to talk about with your crush.
So we’ve rounded up a wide variety of topics, ranging from every day to the thought-provoking, to make sure you never run out of things to say.
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Things to Talk About with Your Crush in Person
When it comes to talking to your crush, it can be nerve-wracking. What do you say? How do you act?
Don’t worry, we’re here to help. Below are some things you can talk about with your crush in person.
1. The Weather
- What are your favorite winter clothes?
- Isn’t the weather wonderful?
- It looks like it’ll rain, don’t you think?
2. Hobbies
- Do you like to play any sports?
- What’s your favorite hobby?
- Do you like to read?
3. School
- Are you in any clubs or activities?
- What classes are you taking this semester?
- How do you like your teacher so far?
4. Music
- What’s your favorite band/artist?
- What’s your favorite song?
- Do you like to listen to any type of music?
5. Food
- Have you tried any new foods lately?
- What’s your favorite dish?
- How do you feel about spicy food?
6. Travel
- Have you gone on any trips lately?
- What was the best trip you ever went on?
- Do you think you’ll travel in the future?
7. Holidays
- How do you feel about Christmas/Easter/Halloween/Oktoberfest/etc.?
- What’s your favorite holiday?
- What are some of your favorite decorations?
8. Pets
- Do you have any pets? What’s their name and what kind of animal are they?
- Do you like animals? What’s your favorite animal?
- Are you a dog or a cat person?
9. TV Shows
- What’s your favorite TV show?
- Who’s your favorite character on that show?
- Have you seen any good movies lately?
10. Future Plans
- Do you know what you want to do after high school/college/university?
- What are your long-term goals?
- Do you have any short-term goals?
11. School Plans
- Do you know what classes you’re taking next semester/year?
- Is there anything new in the school recently?
- How do you feel about your school so far?
12. Technology
- Do you use the internet often?
- What websites do you go to most often?
- What’s your favorite app on your phone?
13. Work
- How was your day at work/school/etc.?
- Did anything interesting happen today?
- Any plans for this weekend involving work or school?
14. Traveling Plans
- Are you going on any trips in the near future?
- What’s the furthest from your home you’ve ever been?
- What’s your favorite type of vacation?
15. Emotions
- How do you feel today?
- How was your day yesterday?
- Have you been feeling stressed lately?
16. Opinion Questions
- Do you think people overuse the phrase “YOLO”?
- What’s your opinion on global warming?
- Should we legalize marijuana?
17. General Questions
- How do you like your coffee/tea?
- What’s your favorite type of food?
- Do you like to go outside or stay inside?
18. Music Questions
- What station is your favorite on Pandora?
- Do you listen to any type of music other than the one(s) you like most?
- Do you have a playlist sorted by genre/mood/etc.?
19. Random Facts
- When’s your birthday? 😉
- Can you cross your eyes?
- How long can you hold your breath?
20. Fill-In Questions
- What’s your favorite color? What about second or third favorite?
- When was the last time you watched The Lion King? Do you like it as much now as when you first saw your favorite song at the moment?
- What’s your favorite type of food? Do you like to eat spicy food? What’s your favorite dish?
21. Compliment Questions
- What’s your favorite thing about yourself?
- What’s your favorite thing about your appearance?
- Do you have any special talents? What’s your favorite one?
22. Conversation Starters
- What are you doing this weekend?
- Do you like to watch any sports? What’s your favorite sport/team?
- How was your day today?
23. Questions to Get to Know Your Crush Better
- What’s your favorite thing to do in your free time?
- Do you like any other genres of music outside of the ones you listed?
- How many siblings do you have?
24. Questions to Get to Know Your Crush’s Family
- What are your parents/guardian(s) like?
- How many brothers and sisters do you have?
- Do you think it’s important for kids to spend time with their families every day?
25. Questions to Get to Know Your Crush’s Friends
- What kind of music do your friends like?
- What are some of your friends’ favorite colors?
- Do you like making new friends? Why or why not?
26. Do You…
- Smoke cigarettes/pot/other drugs? Would you ever consider doing so?
- Drink alcohol? Would you ever consider doing so?
- Do you have any piercings or tattoos? How many/where are they located? Do you plan on getting any more in the future?
- Do you have any plans for next weekend yet?
27. Are You…
- An only child?
- Blond/brunette/redhead?
- Left-handed or right-handed?
28. Get to Know the Person Better Questions
- What’s your favorite food? What about second or third favorite?
- How long have you been playing the guitar? Would you like to teach me?
- What’s your favorite type of movie? Would you ever want to watch one with me?
29. Opinion Questions About Life
- How do you think the world will end?
- Do you think people are too reliant on technology?
- What is the most important thing in life, in your opinion?
30. Serious Questions
- What’s your biggest fear, and why?
- What’s the most traumatic thing that’s ever happened to you?
- Do you think people are capable of change? Why or why not?
As you can see, there are plenty of things to talk about with your crush in real life. Just remember, you don’t have to overthink what you’re going to say. Just be yourself, listen, and keep the conversation going!
Things to Talk About with Your Crush over Text
Now that you have the basics down, it’s time to learn what to talk about with your crush over text!
It can be tough to think of things to say but don’t worry, we’ve got you covered. Here are some topics to get you started:
1. Your favorite books, movies, or TV shows
2. The funniest thing a friend has ever done
3. Popular news topics, such as politics or the economy
4. Any concerts coming up that you might go to together. It can be fun to discuss some options and then plan on going with some friends!
5. What your day was like- this is especially good if some drama happened. Your crush would want to know all the juicy details!
6. A funny celebrity news story
7. Boring things, like traffic or the weather- hearing about these things from someone else’s perspective can be pretty interesting! You might laugh at a joke you never realized was funny or hear an inside scoop on why there was bad weather.
8. Your family and friends. If you’re close, talk about what they did today.
9. Plans for the weekend- you don’t want to plan too far in advance, but it can be fun to discuss some options and then decide on one!
10. A TV show that is not out yet (do NOT spoil the plot, though!) and see if your crush wants to watch it with you.
11. Hobbies and interests- most people have a lot of interests, so your crush will definitely have something in common!
12. Tone it down a bit by complimenting one of their traits- for example, if your crush is shy, tell them that they’re easy to talk to or that you feel like you can tell them anything.
13. Complimenting their looks- this one is a little risky, but if done in the right way, it can be very flattering! Just make sure that you’re genuine with your compliments and don’t say something like “you’re hot” or anything too sexual.
14. If you’ve been talking for a while and the convo just died, you can ask your crush what they’re doing that night. If they say they’re hanging out with friends, it’s time to consider their relationship status.
15. Both of you sending screenshots of funny things you found on the internet.
16. Compliments! Everyone loves getting compliments, and it’s a great way to start building up some good feelings towards each other.
17. A funny story about you.
18. Before you end the convo, make sure to tell them that you had fun talking! This will hopefully lead to more conversations in the future. Maybe every day at 3 pm, they’ll get excited about their daily text.
19. What you’re looking forward to in the near future. This can be anything from a vacation you’re taking to a party you’re going to.
20. Compliments are always a great thing to send! If your crush did something that made you happy, tell them! It’s also a good idea to send them nice texts when they haven’t talked to you in a while.
21. A live sporting event, like the Olympics! This is great because they can show it to you on their phone or computer if they want, and they’ll know that you took time out of your day to watch it with them.
22. A hilarious meme.
23. If your crush is into fitness, talk to them about working out or their favorite exercises!
24. A picture of something funny or cute that happened to you that day.
25. Ask them about their celebrity crush.
26. If your crush is a foodie, talk to them about your favorite restaurants and dishes! You can also swap recipes with each other if you want.
27. Compliments are always a great way to start or end a conversation with your crush. They make the person feel good and show that you’re paying attention to them. If your crush does something you like, tell them! It’s also a good idea to send them.
28. If they have a nice phone case, let them know the color is super cute.
29. If you are having a bad day or are dealing with some drama, it’s okay to vent! Your crush will be happy to hear that you can talk to them about all of your problems.
Like with in-person conversations, the key to having a good conversation over text is keeping things light and upbeat. Avoid getting into deep or heavy conversations unless you know your crush is interested in that kind of thing. Keep it fun, flirty, and interesting!
Things to Talk About with Your Crush on a Phone Call
Who doesn’t love talking on the phone to your crush? Here is a list of ten conversation starters.
Be sure to get permission from your crush before calling them, give them a time and place to call you back, and then prepare for an awesome conversation!
1. “Hey, what’s up?”
2. “So, how was your day?”
3. “What did you do today?”
4. “I’m so bored. What can I do?”
5. “I don’t know what to wear tonight. Can you help me out?”
6. “How’s your family doing?”
7. “Have you seen any good movies lately?”
8. “Have you been up to anything lately?”
9. “What do you think about [insert topic]?”
10. “I have a crazy story to tell you. Can I call you back in two minutes?”
11. “We have a project due in [insert class] tomorrow. Let’s work on it together!”
12. “What are your plans for this weekend?”
13. “I want to hear all about [insert topic]!”
14. “What’s on your mind lately?”
15. “I just finished this great book. Do you want to talk about it?”
16. “Hey, I am feeling really lonely lately. Can we talk or something?”
17. Start a funny story that you remember from the day before, then ask your crush what their favorite funny story is.
18. Compliment them on something, anything!
19. Ask for advice on something that you’re struggling with.
20. “I had a dream about you last night. Can I tell you about it?”
21. “I’m just so grateful to have you in my life, do you know that?”
22. “Can I tell you a secret?”
23. “I saw this really great picture of you, and I wanted to get your opinion on it.”
24. If they’re into sports, ask them about their favorite team or athlete and how they think they’ll do this season.
25. If they like makeup or fashion, ask them their opinion on the latest trends.
26. “Do you want to hear a joke?”
27. “What was your favorite subject in school? Why?”
28. “Do you have any siblings? What’s it like being the eldest/youngest?”
29. “What’s your favorite food? How about your favorite dish to make?”
30. “Do you like spending time alone, or do you prefer being around people?”
31. “What are some of your hobbies/interests?”
32. “What would be your dream vacation destination?”
33. “Tell me one thing that’s been on your mind lately.”
34. “If you were stranded on an island, what 3 things would you want to have with you?”
35. “Do you have any pets? If so, tell me all about them!”
36. “If it was the zombie apocalypse, which of your family members or friends would you save?”
37. “What’s your favorite thing about yourself?”
38. “What’s one thing you would change about yourself?”
39. “What are your plans for the future?”
40. “What is something that happened in your life recently that you’re proud of?”
41. “Do you like to travel or stay at home?”
42. “What are some of your favorite memories?”
43. “What makes you angry?”
44. “Who’s one famous person that you’d like to meet in real life, and why?”
45. “If you could only eat one food for the rest of your life, what would it be?”
46. “What’s your favorite type of music?”
47. “Do you like to read? What are some of your favorite books/authors?”
48. “What TV shows do you watch?”
49. “Are you a morning person or a night person?”
50. “What would be your ideal career?”
51. “What’s your most bizarre pet peeve?”
Remember, if your crush gives you weird or negative answers, it’s okay! They probably just aren’t feeling too great that day. If they give you good, inspiring answers, then congrats!
Random Things to Talk About with Your Crush
There’s no need to be nervous when you have something random to talk about with your crush. It can be a great way to break the ice and help you get to know them better. Here are some ideas to get you started:
1. Ask them about their favorite TV show or movie and why they like it.
2. Talk about your favorite food and why it’s your favorite.
3. Share a funny story with them about something that happened to you recently.
4. Talk about your hobbies and what you enjoy doing in your spare time.
5. Ask them about their family and what their parents do for a living.
6. Talk about your goals for the future and what you’re working towards.
7. Ask them their opinion on a current news story or debate topic.
8. Tell them about your favorite website or app and why you like it.
9. Share a funny meme with them that you think they’ll enjoy.
10. Talk about your favorite music artist or band and why you like their music.
11. Ask them their thoughts on something you read online recently.
12. Talk about your favorite vacation destination and why you enjoyed it so much.
13. Compliment them on something they’re wearing or tell them how attractive you think they are.
14. Tell them the funniest joke that you think they’ll enjoy laughing at.
15. Ask them if they have any interesting stories from when they were younger that you could listen to.
16. Tell them about your favorite book or movie and why you enjoyed it so much.
17. Ask them their opinion on a current event or political issue.
18. Share a funny anecdote with them about something that happened to you recently.
19. Compliment them on something they’re good at and tell them how impressed you are.
20. Ask them if they want to do something together sometime, like see a movie or eat at a restaurant.
21. Tell them that you think they’re cool and would like to know them better.
22. Thank them for being good friends and tell them how much you appreciate them.
23. Wish them a happy birthday or tell them a happy anniversary if it’s close to that date.
24. Tell them that you had a dream about them and share the details with them.
25. Ask them if they want to play a game together online or in person.
26. Offer to help them with something they’re struggling with, whether it’s schoolwork or a hobby.
27. Hug them if they seem like they need one.
28. Send them a funny GIF or picture that you think will make them laugh.
29. Write a short poem for them about how you feel about them.
30. Tell them that you’d to take things slow and get to know them better.
31. Thank them for something that they did or told you recently.
32. Tell them that you’re always here for them if they need someone to talk to.
33. Wish them a happy holiday and let them know that you hope they have fun celebrating.
34. Tell them that you want to be their friend forever and always be there for them whenever they need you.
35. Write a song about how much you like or love them, record it on your phone, and send it to them as a message.
36. Ask what they think the best part of their day was so far or what’s been going well in their life lately.
37. Compliment their outfit and tell them how good they look today from head to toe, whether it’s casual clothing or something formal like a suit or dress.
38. Ask them what they think is the best movie ever made and why it’s their favorite.
39. Offer to watch a movie with them online or sit down together and watch something on TV that you know they enjoy watching.
40. Tell them about an embarrassing moment that happened to you recently, but make sure your crush knows that you’re only joking around, so they don’t take it personally because it was just meant as a joke.
41. Share a song with them that you just love and think they’ll enjoy.
42. Tell them that you have a crush on them and ask if they want to go see a movie or get dinner sometime so you can get to know each other better.
43. Ask what their favorite holiday is and why then talk about why you think it’s your favorite too, even though it might not be the same reason as your crush.
44. Ask them if anything is going on in their life that’s been difficult for them lately, and let them know that you’re always there for them if they ever need someone to talk to or anyone to listen to when something is bothering them.
45. Tell them how much fun you’ve had getting to know them, and ask if they want to hang out again soon.
46. Mention that you’re going on a vacation soon and ask if they have any recommendations for places to go or things to do while you’re there.
47. Compliment their hair, skin, eyes, or another physical feature you find attractive and tell them why you think it’s stunning.
48. Share an article with them about something interesting happening in the world today and ask for their opinion on it.
49. You can share your hobbies and interests with your crush and listen to what they are interested in.
50. Thank them for being a great friend and tell them that you’ll never forget the memories you had together.
51. Ask them if there’s anything they’ve been wanting to do, and tell them that you’d like to do it with them.
52. Wish them a happy new year and let them know that you’re looking forward to spending more time with them throughout the coming year.
53. Tell your crush why they’re special or what makes you like them so much, then ask for their advice on something new that you’re trying out in your own life.
54. Compliment their style and ask who their favorite fashion designer is so you can check out some of their stuff online or look for similar styles at stores nearby where you live.
55. Let your crush know how confident and beautiful/handsome they are, and explain why you think they’re one of the most special people in the world.
56. Mention an inside joke that you two share and laugh about together, then ask them if they want to hear another one.
57. Let your crush know that you appreciate their friendship more than anything and will always be there for them when they need you.
58. If it’s been a while since you’ve seen them, tell them how good it was to see them again and ask what’s new in their life recently.
59. Ask your crush what their favorite type of food is and offer to make them dinner sometime or take them out to eat at their favorite restaurant.
60. Share a moment from a past experience that you both remember together and laugh about, then ask your crush what other memories you two might have in common.
Romantic Things to Talk About with Your Crush
There’s nothing quite as exhilarating as talking to your crush. When you’re able to share your thoughts and feelings with the person you’re attracted to, it can feel like a major step in the right direction.
If you’re looking for some inspiration, here are some romantic things to talk about with your crush:
1. How do you feel about love and relationships?
This is a great question to get the conversation flowing. It can help you get a sense of where your crush stands on matters of the heart.
2. What are your thoughts on soulmates?
Do you believe that everyone has one true love out there, or do you think soulmates are just a myth? This is a deep topic that can lead to some fascinating discussions.
3. What’s your idea of the perfect relationship?
This question can help you understand what your crush is looking for in a partner. Do they want something casual or serious? Something with lots of drama or with no drama at all?
4. What are your thoughts on commitment?
Is your crush someone who is comfortable making commitments, or do they shy away from them? This is another essential question to ask, as it can reveal a lot about your crush’s views on relationships.
5. What are your favorite and least favorite things about being in a relationship?
This question can give you a lot of insight into your crush’s past relationships, as well as what they like and dislike about dating.
6. Do you believe that there is someone out there for everyone?
Do you think that everyone has a soulmate, or do you disagree with the idea of one person being meant for each of us? This is another interesting topic to discuss.
7. Have you been in love before?
If your crush has been in love before, asking them about their past relationships can be informative. What were they like? How did your crush feel during those relationships? Perhaps unsurprisingly, this question can lead to some very detailed responses from your crush, so make sure you’re prepared to have a deep conversation!
8. Would you rather have one great love over many mediocre ones?
This question can gauge how your crush feels about relationships in general. Do they want to find their soulmate and spend the rest of life with them? Or are they more inclined to have lots of casual flings?
9. What’s the most romantic thing you’ve ever done or experienced?
Asking your crush what their idea of a romantic date is can undoubtedly give you some good ideas for what to do on a first date! It can also be interesting to ask them how they feel after experiencing a particularly romantic event, such as a candlelight dinner or a night under the stars.
10. What’s one thing that you love about yourself?
Everyone has positive qualities, even if it isn’t something obvious like intelligence or kindness. What are some of the remarkable attributes that your crush possesses? Sharing these parts of themselves with you can make your crush feel good, and it can also give you a better sense of who they are as a person.
11. What’s one thing that you don’t like about yourself?
Just as everyone has things they love about themselves, everyone also has things they don’t like. This question can help your crush be more open and honest with you, and it can also give you a better understanding of what makes them tick.
12. What are your thoughts on sex?
This is definitely a conversation starter, but it can be interesting to ask your crush their thoughts on sex before getting into deeper topics. Do they think that it’s something that one should only do in a committed relationship? Or are they more open to casual hook-ups?
13. What’s your favorite type of food?
This may not seem like the most romantic question in the world, but it can be an easy way to get into a conversation about various topics. Maybe they love spicy food or Italian cuisine – there are many different types of foods that people love, so this is far from an uninteresting topic!
14. What’s your favorite month of the year?
It may seem like a somewhat arbitrary question at first glance, but even seemingly random questions can lead to some great conversations with your crush. Plus, learning something new about them is always interesting and exciting!
15. What do you think makes someone attractive?
This can be asked as part of a larger discussion on relationships and dating, but it’s also just another fun question that gives you insight into your crush’s past experiences with dating. What are the things that they look for in a potential partner? What are some of the physical features that they find attractive? This question can lead to some pretty intriguing answers!
16. Do you think that there are certain qualities that make someone better in bed?
This is undoubtedly a more risky topic, but it can be interesting to ask your crush what they think makes someone good in the bedroom. You may get some rather surprising answers!
17. Would you want to have kids someday?
If your crush has mentioned something about their future family, this can be another great question to ask them. Maybe they’re excited about having children someday, or maybe they aren’t interested in being parents at all – either way, this is a topic that’s always interesting to discuss!
18. If you were stuck on a desert island for an entire year, what three things would you want with you?
This is another fun question to ask to get to know your crush differently. Maybe they have some exciting answers in mind, or perhaps you’ll be able to figure out what kind of person they are just by the things that they choose to bring with them.
19. What is your guilty pleasure?
People do all sorts of things for fun, from watching their favorite TV shows to playing video games. What kinds of things do they like to indulge in now and then? This can be a great way to discover some unexpected things about your crush that you might not have known before!
20. What is the nicest thing you can say about my body?
This is a question that you should only ask if you’re already physically intimate with your crush. If you’re not, then it’s not appropriate to ask! This can be a really fun question to ask to get some honest feedback – and it’s always nice to know what someone else loves about your body!
Deep Things to Talk About with Your Crush
1. The first time you met: What were your thoughts when you met each other? How did the conversation flow? Did anything funny happen?
2. Your favorite memories together: What are some of your favorite memories together? Why do they stand out in your mind?
3. The things you love about them: What do you love most about your crush? Is it their sense of humor, intelligence, or passion for life? Share why you find these qualities so extraordinary and admirable.
4. The future: What are your plans for the future? Are you planning on staying together, or do they want to explore other options? How would you feel about that if they wanted to explore other relations?
5. Your favorite things to do together: When you two hang out, what are some of your favorite activities? Do you like cooking for each other at home, going on long walks in nature, watching movies together at night, or something else entirely?
6. Future dates/activities: What are some ways that they can make sure their future dates with you are more fun and memorable than ever before? Think of creative ideas for activities that could strengthen your relationship further!
7. The meaning behind their name: If your crush’s name has a special meaning, share it with them! It can be something personal that only the two of you know about. Hearing the story behind their name is sure to touch their heart.
8. Your favorite things about them: This could be a repeat of number three, but it’s always a special thing to hear your crush say again and again just how much they love you. Tell them all the things you love about them – from their adorable little quirks to the bigger things that make them who they are. Let them know that nobody else in the world is quite like them, and you wouldn’t want it any other way.
9. Their hopes and dreams: How do they see their future? What are some of the things on their bucket list? Do they want to travel around the world or spend more time with family before settling down?
10. Your favorite memories together: If you had to pick some of your favorite moments that you’ve shared, which ones would top your list? Why do those moments stand out so much more than others in your mind?
11. Plans for Valentine’s Day: Think about some fun and unique ways you could celebrate Valentine’s day this year! Maybe there’s a special place nearby where candlelight serves dinner, or maybe you can organize an indoor picnic at home when it turns colder outside. Now’s the time to start planning and putting together your romantic Valentine’s date.
12. A night out: If you and your crush had a fun night out on the town, what would it be like? Would it be an outdoor concert where you could dance in front of a band, or perhaps a quiet dinner followed by drinks at a bar? Talk with your crush about some possibilities for such an evening – maybe even plan the whole evening over coffee!
13. How they make you feel: Share with them how their presence makes you feel – what emotions come up when you think of them? Do they bring feelings of peace and security into your life, or do they remind you that anything is possible as long as love lasts? Your crush is sure to appreciate hearing how special they make you feel.
14. The things they do that make you laugh: Do they have a funny way of walking or a habit of making goofy faces? What are some of the little things your crush does that always make you laugh? Share a few laughs together and enjoy the light-hearted moments in your relationship.
You can even write these things down and be sure to give them a good laugh next time you see them.
15. The way they brighten up your day: How do they make you feel? Do you go about your day feeling stressed, or do the world’s challenges seem more manageable when they’re around? Let them know just how much their presence means to you – after all, it’s nice knowing that someone cares! Tell them that each time you see them, your day is made just a little bit brighter simply by being in their company.
16. A moment where they inspired you: Did something special happen recently where your crush came through for you in the best possible way? If so, make a point of letting them know exactly what they did to inspire you and how much it meant to you.
17. The crazy things they say: Sometimes, the most fun conversations can start with a silly remark or a tongue twister from your crush. If your crush says something silly or off-the-wall to you, join in on the laughs and see the fun in it.
18. What they look for in a partner: Do they have any particular characteristics that are nonnegotiable for them? Is it important to them to make an equal partnership with their significant other? Or maybe they want someone caring, fit, or intelligent. Let your crush know what some of their best qualities are – both physical and mental – because if you’re already crushing on them, there must be something special about them!
19. A memory from childhood: Go back in time together by sharing memories from when you were younger. Did either of you take dance lessons as kids? Did you ever get into trouble for playing video games past your bedtime? What are some of the silliest things you used to do as kids?
20. How far you’ve come together: Think about how far you’ve both come! You might not have known each other very long, but imagine where it could lead in the future. Talk about what the next year might look like if everything goes well. It’s also nice to know that someone else is sharing their hopes and dreams with you, so try to be open-minded when they share something special with you.
21. A song that reminds you of them: Is there a specific song that makes you think of your crush? What about it is special to you, and why does it make you feel about them? Share some lyrics from the song with them or play the tune on your instrument for a touching moment.
22. Being appreciated: How does it feel when someone tells you how special you are, or what a big impact on their life you’ve had? Let your crush know just how much they mean to you by showing appreciation for everything they’ve done – whether big or small!
23. Their favorite memory with one of their family members: We all have fond memories from our childhood – whether good or bad – so talk with your crush about a particularly happy memory they have of the time spent with someone close to them, such as a grandparent or a sibling. It’s always nice to reminisce with someone special about days gone by!
24. How their smile makes you feel: Have you ever noticed how your heart skips a beat when your crush flashes you that perfect smile? Let your crush know just what an impact their smile has on you – after all, there’s nothing more flattering than being told how wonderful it is!
25. Compliments for their personality: Everyone loves receiving compliments, so take the time to tell your crush all of the great things you appreciate about their personality. Whether it’s their sense of humor, intelligence, or generosity, let them know just how much you value the things that make them unique!
26. What they do that makes you feel special: Do they always make a point of including you in all their activities? Or maybe they always text you back right away when you reach out to them. Whatever it is, let your crush know what it is they do that makes you feel special and appreciated.
Fun Things to Talk About with Your Crush
Talking with your crush can be nerve-wracking, but it can also be a lot of fun! Here are some topics to get you started:
- Ask them about their favorite things. What are they passionate about? What do they like to do for fun?
- Find out about their family. What are their parents like? Do they have any siblings?
- Talk about your shared interests. What do you both like to do for fun? What are your favorite movies, books, or TV shows?
- Share some embarrassing stories. Everyone has at least one story that they’re not too proud of, so don’t be scared to share yours.
- Learn about their favorite music. What bands or artists do they like? What are their favorite songs?
- Talk about your dreams and aspirations. What do you hope to accomplish in the future? What are your goals for the future?
- Make plans to hang out. Once you’ve gotten to know each other a little bit better, set up a date to do something (without your friends tagging along).
- Make inside jokes. Make fun of each other and create inside jokes that only the two of you understand. This will help solidify your connection.
- See what they’re like when they get angry. Everyone has their own way of dealing with anger–see if they fly off the handle or take deep breaths!
- Ask them about their favorite color, animal, band/artist, etc. There are so many things to learn about your crush!
- Find out about their family. What are their parents like? Do they have any siblings?
- Talk about your shared interests. What do you both like to do for fun? What are your favorite movies, books, or TV shows?
- Tell stories about funny moments in class or at parties where they were there too! You can share embarrassing moments together and bond over the resulting laughter (or blushing).
- See if they would rather be an animal or a superhero. Encourage them to choose an animal that would be their fursona and explain why!
- Watch your favorite movie together and make fun of it in good humor (or cry in the corner).
- Do they like to read? If so, ask them about their favorite books. Do they like movies based on books?
- What books do they recommend reading/watching?
- Talk about your favorite foods. What are your favorite dishes? What restaurants do you like to eat at?
- Tell them about your first kiss/romantic experience. It can be a fun way to gauge their reaction and see how they think about it.
- Talk about your crushes on other people. This can be a tricky topic, but it can also lead to some hilarious moments.
- See if they have any tattoos or piercings. What are their thoughts on those kinds of body modifications?
- Share embarrassing pictures of yourself (or tag them in memes that will make them blush). We’ve all got them, so don’t be shy!
- Do they have any siblings? If so, ask them about their relationships with their siblings.
- Tell them about your favorite place to go on vacation. Why is it your favorite? What do you like to do there?
- Talk about your plans for the future. What do you hope to accomplish in the next five years? In the next ten years?
- See how they feel about current events. Do they follow the news closely? What are their thoughts on recent political events? On world events?
- Talk about your favorite video games and why you enjoy playing them. Do they have any experience with video games? Are they interested in trying some out?
- Talk about your favorite movies and TV shows and why you like them. What are their thoughts on the latest blockbuster movie or the newest episode of their favorite show?
- Do they have any allergies? If so, ask them about them and how they manage them.
- Talk about your fashion sense. What kinds of styles do you like to wear? Are they the same as your crush’s style?
- What is their dream job? Do they think it’s achievable? Why or not?
- What is their favorite type of food? Do they like trying new foods or sticking to their favorites?
- Talk about your favorite places to go on dates. Why are they your favorite? What do you like to do when you go there?
- Do they have any fears or phobias? If so, what are they, and how do they deal with them?
- See what their favorite video games are and why. What genres do they enjoy? Are there any new games you could play together?
- Find out what type of music your crush listens to. Is it similar or different from your own tastes? Do they have a favorite song or artist that you could share with them?
- Do they like going to the movies? If so, ask them about their favorite movies and which actors/actresses they admire most.
- Do they like any TV shows? If so, which ones and why? Ask them about their favorite episodes or characters.
- Talk about your favorite places to hang out with your friends. Why are they your favorite? What do you like to do when you go there?
- Talk about your favorite subjects in school and why you enjoy them. What is your crush’s favorite subject? Do they think they would like it if they tried it out?
- What are some of their hobbies? Do they enjoy anything that you also enjoy? Or is there something that they do that fascinates you?
- Ask them what superpower they would want and why. Are they the type of person who would want to fly or be able to read minds?
- Do they have any siblings? If so, ask them about their relationships with their siblings.
- Talk about your favorite place to go on vacation. Why is it your favorite? What do you like to do there?
- What is their dream job? Do they think it’s achievable? Why or not?
- See if they follow any sports teams and if so, ask them about their favorite player or why they like that team. Do they prefer individual or team sports?
- What are their thoughts on current events? On world events?
- Talk about your fashion sense. What kinds of styles do you like to wear? Are they the same as your crush’s style?
- Find out what kind of books your crush reads. Which genres do they enjoy most? Do they recommend any books to you?
- Ask if there is a character from a book, movie, show that reminds them of you. What are their thoughts on that comparison?
- Are they superstitious? If so, what type of superstitions do they have, and how do they apply them to their daily lives?
- See what sports your crush likes to play or watch. Are they into professional sports or more casual games with friends and family? What are some things about their favorite sport that annoy them?
- Ask them about their family life. Where did they grow up? How many siblings do they have? What is their relationship with their parents like? Does having a sibling influence how much time they spend with their parents as adults (e.g., do you both live.
- See if they want to be friends or something more. This is a difficult question for some people, but it can be an excellent way to get a sense of where the other person is at.
The sky’s the limit when it comes to talking to your crush! These are just a few topics to get you started, but feel free to branch out and discuss anything that comes to mind. Have fun with it and enjoy getting to know them better!
The importance of a good conversation with your crush
As you know, having your crush like you back is far from easy. You may have to deal with the fact that they are already in a relationship or that they may find you weird and unfriendly. But there is one thing we all always neglect: we never give enough attention to our conversations with our crushes.
Sure, we may talk to them a lot. But how often do we really focus on having a good conversation with them?
It’s important to be mindful of the conversation you have with your crush. Make sure you don’t come off as too shy or weird and try to keep the conversation flowing.
How to initiate a conversation with your crush
There’s no denying that starting a conversation with your crush can be nerve-wracking. But if you want to take the plunge and get to know them better, it’s worth trying. Here are a few tips on how to do it:
1. Find a common interest
One of the best ways to start a conversation with your crush is to find something you have in common. If you can talk about something you both have a passion for, it will be much easier to get the conversation going. See if you can find a common interest by looking at what they have on their Facebook or Twitter page or by looking at online articles written by them.
2. Start with a compliment
A simple compliment can be a great way to break the ice. Start by saying something like, “I like your shirt,” or “I love your accent.” It lets them know that you’re interested in them, and it will get the conversation flowing. However, you should probably only use this if your crush is someone you’re friends with. Otherwise, it could come across as creepy.
3. Practice makes perfect
If you want to get better at starting conversations with your crush, it’s important to practice. The more you do it, the easier it will become. Try talking to them in person or making a phone call. You can also try having them start conversations with you by asking them to text or email you about something they found interesting. Then try to respond accordingly.
4. Try to keep talking
Once you get your conversation started, it’s important not to let opportunities pass you by. If your crush says something, comment on it. Respond to whatever they say and follow their lead. Don’t let the conversation end too quickly, or your crush might think that you’re not interested in them. If they get quiet, try asking them about their day or hobbies.
5. Don’t be afraid to flirt
Flirting can be a great way to let your crush know that you’re interested in them. But make sure that you do it subtly, or you might scare them off. Try complimenting them on their looks or making a joke about something. If you’re not sure how to flirt, there are plenty of online guides that can help.
6. Be yourself
The best way to start a conversation with your crush is to be yourself. If you try to act like someone you’re not, they’ll probably be able to tell. And if you act like yourself, your crush might even find it refreshing. It’s always better, to be honest than to pretend to be someone you’re not.
How to keep a conversation going with your crush
Here are a few tips on how to have a good conversation with your crush:
- Talk about things you both are interested in. This is a great way to keep the conversation going and make sure things don’t go dead in the water. If you find it hard to come up with a topic, simply ask them about what’s been going on in their life lately.
- Avoid awkward pauses. Pauses can be uncomfortable, so make sure you avoid them at any cost. If there is a pause, find something to say immediately. It doesn’t have to be that interesting or funny. Just say something to keep the conversation going.
- Don’t be afraid to show your interest. If you like what your crush is saying, show it. Nod, laugh, and make encouraging comments. This will keep them talking and show them that you are interested in what they say.
- Don’t be too shy or awkward. If you have a crush, there is already a bit of weirdness going on. Don’t make it more uncomfortable by being silent or awkward. If you feel like your crush is nervous, take the lead and show them that talking is okay.
- Don’t monopolize the conversation. It’s important to let your crush talk too. So make sure you give them a chance to share their thoughts and feelings. Let them know that you are interested in hearing what they have to say.
Having a good conversation with your crush is important. It can help you build a better relationship with them and show them that you are a good friend.
The Takeaway
We hope you found this guide helpful in coming up with things to talk about with your crush. When it comes to talking about fun things, the sky is literally the limit! We also encourage you to be yourself and practice self-love when communicating with your crush so they can really get a sense of who you are as an individual. Got any other ideas or questions? Let us know in the comments below!
