Bonjour folks, how have you been lately? We have been M.I.A from this blog for a long because of few commitments. But now we’re hoping to get back on the blogging spree.
Today, we’re going to talk about the mistakes, actually little mistakes that can lead you to a lifetime of regret. It’s based on our and other people’s experiences. So keep on reading, guys, and I hope you enjoy this post!
1. Opening up to someone really quick
This is the worst mistake you can make, but we all are humans, after all, and we turn to those who we think we can rely on, but alas, not everybody is worth our trust. Occasionally, we find people with whom we get along fast and spill our secrets and other stuff to them out of emotions. Try not to do that unless you’ve built a strong bond and trust between you two. The rule of life is not to trust anyone quickly.
2. Faking yourself
Be true to yourself AND others. You don’t want to fake things, but you know this is how to cope with society. Stop trying to fit in, realize who you are, and do everything under your willingness. Trying to be someone you’re not can be terrible and exhausting, so avoid it now, or you’ll have to live your life in regret!
3. Cutting off with people
Yes, I know this world is full of crappy people, but good ones exist too! Just because you’ve had a heated argument with someone doesn’t mean you should cut contact with them forever. Try to resolve any issues you have with people before deciding to cut them off from your life. Be forgiving and a little bit tolerant, and that can save you from ending worthy relationships. You need socializing and good people in your life to motivate you, inspire you, and tell you that you can do better in life.
4. Not standing up for yourself or someone
Seen a little guy getting bullied by big-sized guys? Did you just stood by and watched or gave it a pass? This will make you regret in life later when you would think about things you could’ve done in the past. Learn to take a stand against bad things happening in society, and it will make a little difference.
5. Not valuing the good phase of life
Stop cribbing about the future and appreciate what you have now! By the time you’ll worry about the future, the happy time will flee quickly. Live the moment happily, love yourself without any regrets, and you’ll be satisfied with your life. Enjoy the good times and when you have bad times, try to cope with them with positivity.
6. Not giving time to your loved ones
Even if you’re a super busy person, you should always make time for your loved ones, especially your family, spouse, and friends. Put them before any work you have, make them a priority, because you might lose the person forever in the process of being super hectic. Life is all about living and enjoying yourself with your loved ones, so why miss the fun?
7. Not living the life you want to
Even I’m guilty of this. I lose important opportunities in life because of embarrassment, shyness, guts, etc., and I often take people’s judgment seriously. That’s where I’m getting wrong. I tell myself many times to stop caring about people and live my life how I want to. I might just stop doing things I love or that I want to, but people’s judgment will never stop. This can be the biggest regret in life. Just remember, you only get to live once!
8. Not taking care of your health
This is the last but an essential anecdote. Always, always take care of your health in any condition. Put your health first in every aspect. You won’t want to fall sick terribly and regretting later what you could’ve done to avoid it. Trust me, I have a personal experience with this. Eat healthily, avoid junk food and stay fit by exercising. Find your own easy way to keep fit and stick to it. Treat your body with amazing (healthy) food, and you’ll see the difference it makes to your overall body.